Professionalism: The Silent Killer of Team Culture

Productivity, progress, and success are put on the back-burner when you prioritize decorum, etiquette, and propriety

Professionalism: The Silent Killer of Team Culture
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👋🏻 HI, I’M BRI, AND I’M A MAXIMALIST. 👋🏻

Shocking, I know. And if this does shock you, we need to hang out more. ✨🌈

Maximalism is in my DNA, y’all. She’s coursing through my veins (there’s probably more glitter than plasma in there).

My closet? A riot of prints, colors, and sequins.

My apartment? Imagine a team of five-year-olds were given full creative control. Woe is my husband.

My office? Same energy — tchotchkes! Doodads! Neon explosions galore!

And here’s the kicker:

I’ve broken almost every unwritten rule of “professionalism” and still been a high-performer and a kick-ass leader.

Which is why, with all the love in my heart, I roll my eyes (so hard they nearly leave orbit) when I see yet another LinkedIn think-piece about workplace manners, or overhear a coworker tattling to HR about a dress code “incident,” or someone clutching their pearls over emojis in emails.

Friends, we are regulating ourselves into oblivion.

MOST WORKPLACE RULES AREN’T THE PROBLEM

Don’t get me wrong: I’m not a (complete) rebel. I’ve read a lot of employee handbooks, and most rules are fine. Reasonable, even. Mostly. 😈

(Though dress codes? Yikes. Don’t get me started. That rant deserves its own post, and one day I will unleash it like Godzilla in sequins and a rainbow wig.)

The real problem?

The unofficial rules — the ones enforced not by policy, but by personal preference masquerading as propriety.

You know the ones: